Thoughts and Perspectives

I’m putting fingers to keyboard and putting this on your screen so you can all hold me accountable for what I’m about to say I will do for my blog goals in 2020. Wow, kind of makes me feel like an authority figure or something, lol. Jesting aside, I know …

Life happens; work, kids, other commitments and so on. Your head hits the pillow at the end of a busy, tiring day, and sex is the thing of dreams (not that I remember my dreams). It’s a common theme to go through peaks and troughs in life and sex is …

I’m writing this post because as I enter my third year of blogging I am getting somewhat frustrated by companies who reach out asking me to ‘collaborate’ with them, only for them to expect ‘something’ for nothing. If you are running a business, you need to pay for some services. …

The purpose of this post is to give regular readers an update on why things have been so quiet on the site for the past few months. Living amongst a demolition zone Firstly, the building works on our home, are way behind schedule. We are currently over 30 weeks in. …

This is why I don’t trust app-based technologies, including Alexa. I also don’t like them in my sex toys.

I’m writing this post to talk about the therapy I’ve started since my depression resurfaced a few months back. It’s a form of therapy I hadn’t been aware of before; Acceptance & Commitment Therapy. What does it all mean? In essence it means recognising that we go through periods of …

To read my post about the Friday night meet & greet at Eroticon 2019, click here. For Part 1 of Saturday and Sunday talks, follow this link. Anxious Writers Club This informative workshop style talk was presented by Cara Thereon, Girl on the Net and Kayla Lords. One of the …

In a previous post, I discussed some of the Saturday morning Eroticon 2019 talks. Here, I will write about some of the talks I attended in the afternoon and on the Sunday. This post will be written in two parts as it is rather long. Click here to go to …

What is fear? Fear is something we dread even if it’s not tangible. Often we only have fear itself to shy away from. I sometimes find it hard to make a decision. Whether that is because I have insufficient information and or a lack of decision-making time. There are easy …

S. E. X. I realise this might sound ironic given that I blog about sex toys and other things sex-related. But even sex bloggers go through ‘sex-droughts.’ And the fact that I’m a married  sex blogger does not mean I get instant access to sex whenever I want it. Two …