Thoughts and Perspectives

Welcome to my blog if it is the first time you’ve stumbled upon my site. If you’ve been here before, you’ll know that I am a fan of sex toys, of all shapes and sizes and styles. Here are my top 10 reasons why sex toys can make your life …

This week, I will mostly focus on some recent reviews from my blogging peers. Joanne’s Reviews has a great summary of the versatility of the Buch Dick silicone paddle from Fun Factory. I have not used many paddles, but the Buch Dick not only offers two different sides; one smooth …

As its Frisky Friday, I’m going to talk about medical play. What springs to your mind; Nurses uniforms maybe? An attractive white-coated ‘professional’ bending you over their examination couch before inserting lubricated fingers into your rectum. Preparing you for a thorough examination of your prostate. Perhaps you like to imagine …

Lick-orice All-sorts That may be a slightly unusual and abstract subheading, but us blogggers (I say ‘us’ as I consider myself to be one of the ‘gang’) are a mixture of personalities. We all have our own lifestyle preferences, sexual orientation and gender identity. Our views on myriad topics may …

Though not necessarily strictly an erotic photograph in its own right, I like to think that the arrival of spring heralds the possibility of outdoor mischief. I’ve not been lucky enough to partake in any ‘getting back to nature’ for some years, but I hope some day I will be …

Vaginas are all different. No two people with vaginas will have identical labia or clitorises. They will have differences in smoothness, colour,  and size. Some are asymmetric. Some are ‘neatly tucked away.’ It doesn’t matter. Like orchids, they are all beautiful in their own way. This hybrid orchid has 5 …

We go through life, from birth, developing in infancy. Becoming young adults, then older adults. We age, and we finally end our days on this planet. And what is life? Growth of a family, a collection of accolades, a career possibly, and albums full of memories. As children, we enjoy …

Safe Sane and Consensual I recently had  a conversation with someone who would like to be a submissive for a Dominant partner. In our conversation, they mentioned three scenarios that they would enjoy to partake in. Being lead through woods whilst on a collar and lead, walking as a ‘pet.’ If …

Let your fingers do the talking… Sometimes during oral sex, actually, most of the time during oral sex, I will get restless. My hips will buck upwards. I want more friction. On my clitoris and labia, over my vulva in general. Then I also want something else. I want internal …

Life, you only get one chance…. I feel like on my way through life, I’ve made some pretty monumental mistakes. Some of which I still make now. If like me, you feel that you could do with making some changes, here are a couple of suggestions. Not all of them …