Thoughts and Perspectives

Lots of fellow bloggers will be summarising what they got up to in 2017 and  their goals for this year. In a similar vein I will share my reflections on 2017 and plans for 2018. For me personally, 2017 was a year of ‘trying out’ sex blogging. I didn’t necessarily …

Quiet Reflections from Bunny It’s been a while since I posted some of my musings. My posts of late have generally been reviews. Lucky me to have all these lovely toys to try,  and to tell you about! I appreciate for some of my readers, reviews can get a bit …

Kinkly recently published their 100 top sex blogging superheroes of 2017. In that mammoth task, they also ranked over 300 blogs in order of the criteria below, (as well as their own in-house guidelines). But the question is, if there are 300-plus bloggers out there reviewing toys, does this make …

I asked my Twitter followers to give me some feedback on how using toys has affected their sex life, for either solo play or for use with partners. Do people like toy play or not toy play? A male commented that he likes to integrate them into his sex life, …

A common fantasy for many couples is to invite a third person to play with them. But for a lot of couples the idea remains just that. There are several reasons why the fantasy may go unfulfilled. There may be trouble with identifying a suitable third party, whether they are male …

Entwined One form of kink I’ve been researching lately is Shibari. The ancient Japanese art of using lengths of rope to bind a person with intricate knot-work and /or for restraining purposes. Shibari literally means ‘to tie.’ It originated from the Japanese police and Samurai in the period 1400-1700. Initially …

One careful lady owner In this materialistic, consumerist world, it seems like most things we buy these days are disposable. Or at some point, destined for a charity bag. Why should sex toys be any different? I mean, why spend hundreds or even thousands of pounds on brand new ones …

Muscle versus brawn Becoming a parent and responsible-ish adult has been a game-changer for my life in general and it has also affected my mind a lot too. I still get anxious at times, and now for more valid reasons. Will my daughter develop and learn well? Is she safe when she goes …

Mental ‘health warning’ This post is being written because I, like a lot of other people out there, have suffered from a mental health condition. It still rears its ugly head at times though I manage it as best as I can through various means. Some of these have included ‘talking therapies,’ such …